When to Seek Help: Understanding Delays in Developmental Milestones 

As parents, we want to ensure that our children are growing and developing on track. While every child develops at their own pace, understanding the typical timelines for developmental milestones can help you identify when there might be a delay. Recognizing these signs early allows you to seek professional help and provide the necessary support for your child’s development. This article covers when to seek help by understanding delays in key developmental milestones from infancy through early childhood. 

Recognizing Developmental Milestones    

Developmental milestones are specific skills or behaviors that most children can do by a certain age. These milestones fall into several categories: physical (gross and fine motor skills), cognitive, social/emotional, and language. It’s essential to be aware of these milestones to track your child’s progress accurately. 

Typical Milestones to Watch: 

• Physical Development: Rolling over, sitting, crawling, walking, and jumping 
• Cognitive Development: Following objects with eyes, solving simple problems, recognizing objects and people 
• Social/Emotional Development: Responding to their name, showing affection, playing with others 
• Language Development: Babbling, saying first words, forming short sentences 

Early Signs of Developmental Delays

While variations in development are normal, certain signs may indicate a delay that requires further assessment. Here are some early indicators in different age groups: 

Infants (0-12 Months): 

• Not responding to loud sounds or not turning to locate sounds by 6 months 
• Inability to hold up their head or push up on their arms by 3-4 months 
• Lack of babbling or cooing by 9 months 
• Not sitting independently by 9 months or not crawling by 12 months 

Toddlers (1-3 Years): 

• Not walking by 18 months 
• Limited or no engagement in pretend play by age 2 
• Difficulty understanding simple instructions by age 2 
• Limited vocabulary (less than 15 words) by 18 months, not combining words by age 2 
• Lack of interest in interactive games like peek-a-boo or not pointing to things by 18 months 

Preschoolers (3-5 Years): 

• Trouble with learning to use utensils, crayons, or dressing themselves by age 3 
• Difficulty forming simple sentences by age 3-4 
• Limited interest in playing with peers by age 4 
• Difficulty recognizing colors, shapes, or numbers by age 5 
• Inability to follow simple instructions or focus on tasks by age 5 

When to Seek Professional Help  

If you notice any of these signs, it may be time to consult with a pediatrician, child psychologist, or an early intervention specialist. Early diagnosis and intervention can make a significant difference in your child’s development. 

Steps to Take: 

• Initial Consultation: Schedule an appointment with your child’s pediatrician to discuss your concerns. They can perform a developmental screening and recommend further evaluations if needed. 
• Specialist Referrals: If necessary, your pediatrician may refer you to specialists such as neurologists, speech therapists, occupational therapists, or developmental pediatricians. 
• Early Intervention Programs: Enroll your child in early intervention programs that provide tailored support and therapies. These programs are designed to help children catch up in areas where they are experiencing delays. 

Supporting Your Child’s Development   

While seeking professional help is crucial, parents also play a vital role in supporting their child’s development. Here are some ways you can help: 

• Engage Actively: Spend quality time playing, reading, and talking with your child to stimulate their cognitive, language, and social skills. 
• Create a Stimulating Environment: Provide a variety of age-appropriate toys, books, and activities to encourage exploration and learning. 
• Establish Routines: Consistent routines help children feel secure and understand what to expect, which can enhance their ability to learn and adapt. 
• Celebrate Small Victories: Recognize and celebrate your child’s small achievements, boosting their confidence and motivation. 

Understanding the typical developmental milestones and knowing when to seek help can ensure that your child receives the support they need for healthy growth and development. Always trust your instincts as a parent; if something doesn’t seem right, don’t hesitate to reach out to professionals for guidance. 

By acting early and providing a supportive environment, you can help your child overcome developmental delays and thrive in their development journey. FDNA’s Child Development Checker app offers a convenient way to assess potential concerns from home, enabling you to track your child’s progress. Additionally, the app’s “Connect to Expert” feature provides access to trusted healthcare professionals for personalized guidance. By staying proactive and using these resources, you can support your child’s developmental journey effectively.